54 - I love women with big breasts
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54.  Dear Dr. Smith

I love women with big breasts. I am sexually attracted to women with large breasts. Almost every time I see a woman out in public with big breasts I get sexually aroused. And I even pray to the Lord to give me a wife with big breasts. I know a lot of people will say that I should not marry a woman just for her big breasts or sexy body, but I should marry a woman for her character or inner beauty. I do believe the character of the woman is important, however I am a man and I have sexual desires that need to be met. I consider my sexual desires being satisfy as important also. I don't want to marry a skinny woman with small breasts. If I do I will be miserable. I need a nice, solid woman with big breasts. Do you think something is wrong with me? Do you think I have an addiction of women with large breasts? Or is it just normal of being a man with a preference to women with large breasts?  

 Dear Big Barest Lover,

Your insatiable desire to marry a woman with big breast needs examination. If that is your only criteria for marriage and sexual arousal, then you must think again.  Why do you love big breast though? What do they do to you? Is it just sexual arousal? What if you marry someone with big breast and later on in life she has to do a mastectomy, will you stop loving her? What if later on you discovered that they were implants? Would you be no longer sexually aroused? Would you get a divorce? Love my friend is bigger and deeper than "big breast".

You have admitted that many would counsel you to marry someone for their character or inner beauty, but you say you are a man and you have sexual desires that need to be met. However, there is not a dichotomy between character/inner beauty and fulfilling sexual desires. Is it that it will take you too much time, energy and prayer to seek them both, that is, physical satisfaction and inner character?

Your expression of wanting a solid woman with big breast is an over simplification of what the process of mate selection is all about. If sex was the only factor that sustained a health marital relationship then you would be dead right with your quest, but since it is just a fraction of marital satisfaction, and a figment of your immagination then you are dead wrong with your desire.

Do I think you have an addiction for women with big breast? Oh! Yes I do.  Your starting point for love is faulty. In trying to find a mate you should look for someone you admire and at the same time has inner qualities and the right relationship with God. The "big breast" infatuation is only temporary and if you marry just for that, the day might come when you don’t even want to look at them let alone to be aroused by them.  Think again and don't be so obsess with "BIG BREAST".
God bless.

Dr. Smith

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